This past weekend, something I've been building for over a year became what it was always meant to be.
Since leaving Adobe in May, I've been working hard on Domus - the Catholic prayer formation company that started as an idea about the domestic church and has become the work I believe I was made for.
And now it's complete.
In Matthew 6, Jesus speaks of three practices as though they are obvious.
He does not say "if you pray" but "when you pray." He does not say "if you fast" but "when you fast." He does not say "if you give alms" but "when you give alms."
Prayer, fasting, almsgiving. The three-fold spiritual life. Assumed. Obvious. The way Christians live.
Domus has served prayer beautifully for over a year now. Daily Scripture reflection, five minutes, shaped for the state of life you're actually in. Hearth for families. Iron for men. Vessel for women. Eventide for elders. The & Altar app has become part of many Catholic households' daily rhythm.
But prayer was never meant to stand alone. It was always meant to be accompanied by fasting and almsgiving - the two practices that keep prayer from becoming merely interior, merely comfortable, merely about me.
This weekend, Domus became what it was always meant to be.
Fast
The new Fast tab opens each morning with the Church's invitation for that day.
Fridays throughout the year - the day the Church has always kept as penitential. Wednesdays for men - a traditional Saint Joseph day. Ember Days each season. Vigils of major solemnities. Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.
Each invitation includes an explanation of the day's meaning and a way to offer your fast for a specific intention. There's a personal streak visible only to you - no leaderboards, no comparisons. This is between you and God alone.
And if fasting from food isn't appropriate for you - pregnancy, illness, medication, recovery - Domus offers alternatives. The point is not the performance. The point is the offering.
Give
The Give tab completes the package.
Daily invitations to sacrificial giving - not always monetary, often simply small sacrifices for others. Feast days connect giving to the specific saint being celebrated. Saint Vincent de Paul's day points to the poor. Damien of Molokai's day points to the sick. Katharine Drexel's day points to racial justice.
There's one theological anchor I want to name explicitly, because it's the heart of everything Give proposes: our giving is inherently tied to the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.
At the Offertory, the priest speaks of the bread and wine as "which earth has given and human hands have made." What we bring to the altar - the fruit of our labor, our very lives - is united to Christ's offering and presented to the Father.
Every gift you make outside of Mass is preparation for what happens at Mass. Every gift becomes part of what Christ offers on the altar. This is why we give sacrificially. Not because the Church needs it. Not because we owe it. Because our giving is joined to His giving, and His giving saves the world.
Household and Groups
Alongside Fast and Give, we released household sharing - the ability for family members to see when each other has prayed, share intentions, and observe feast days together.
The domestic church is real. Your household is a church. And churches pray together.
Groups extend this beyond the household - voluntary Catholic associations of adult subscribers who choose to walk together in prayer. Parish friends. Workplace colleagues. The men or women you meet with weekly. Each Group chooses its own patron from a library of thirty saints.
Patron Saints
Every Domus prayer path now has a patron saint who walks with you.
Hearth has Saints Louis and Zélie Martin - the married couple, the parents of Thérèse, the household that formed a Doctor of the Church. Iron has Saint Joseph the Worker. Vessel has Saint Elizabeth of the Visitation. Eventide has Saint Anna the Prophetess.
Their holy card appears each time you open the app. Not decoration. Companionship. Someone who walked this road before you and is praying for you now.
The Seed That Was Always Growing
This is the seed that's been growing since before I knew what it was.
The domestic church. Formation in the home. The idea that every household is a school of faith, and every member deserves to be formed.
Years ago, before the diaconate, before Adobe ended, before any of this had a name - I knew the Church needed something like this. Prayer shaped for real life. Fasting that made sense. Giving tied to the liturgical year. All of it integrated, all of it accessible, all of it built for the way Catholic families actually live.
I didn't know then that I would be the one to build it. But the seed was planted. And now it's bearing fruit.
What This Means
Domus is now fully what it was designed to be.
Prayer, fasting, almsgiving - the three-fold practice from Matthew 6. Household and Groups - the domestic church and the wider Body of Christ. Patron saints as real companions, not historical figures in a book.
I have been building this full-time since leaving corporate work in May. It is the Catholic work I believe I was made for.
If you're already a Domus subscriber, watch for the app update this week. If you've been curious but haven't tried it yet, there's a 7-day free trial at wearedomus.com/start.
And if you know a Catholic parent, a small group leader, or a friend who has tried three prayer apps and quit them all - this one is different, and it's here.
In fieri. Ad alta.
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